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Game, Not Appearance

I never considered myself a good-looking guy. In college I would look in the mirror and see big ears, acne, and a hairy, pudgy body. I didn’t like what I saw and I thought that most girls probably wouldn’t like what they saw either. As a result I didn’t even bother trying to get laid for most of college. Believing I didn’t have the right look paralyzed me from talking to girls, so I never even developed the basic skills to interact with them. I was easy-going and funny with friends, but nervous and awkward around girls. What I didn’t realize is that girls do not see me the same way I see myself. While there are consistent patterns for what makes humans attractive, your look is perceived differently in the eyes of different girls. This means that while Jane thinks you are a hideous beast, Stacy may think you have extra character. Rachel thinks you are big and awkward, but Lauren thinks you will be able to protect her. The first thing you see when you look in the mirror could be your big nose or balding head, but girls don’t zero in on these features―they absorb your entire look and presence. The insecure man, through his unattractive body language alone, is able to tell her that he is not a worthy sexual partner. His meek eye contact and slouchy appearance is a physical manifestation of his thinking about himself and the importance of appearance. Even if most females on the planet think you are a monster, it’s better to believe that looks don’t matter so that you are able to make a confident showing for the girls who don’t mind your appearance. With the addition of game, you will be able to sleep with girls whose first impression of your appearance is less than favorable. After getting into the game, I made some superficial changes to my appearance. I lost my fuzzy mustache and cut my hair, I bought trendy clubbing clothes, and I worked out at the gym to build muscle. But was I really becoming a better looking guy? I doubt it. When I compare pictures of myself now (shaggy, Jesus-looking) and one year after I entered the game, I looked more youthful, polished, and stylish then, during the time I got less sex. It’s your game that plays the biggest role in making you appear more or less attractive. It really doesn’t matter if you are putting gel in your hair or not. Now I get complimented on my appearance and approached fairly regularly even though I put less energy into looking good than my Nike sweatshirt days. If you think appearance is important and you consider yourself unattractive, you’ve basically doomed yourself to spending most of your time behind a computer. You need to have the belief that game, not appearance, is important, and proceed to go out there and play the hand you are dealt. It’s true that the better looking you are, the easier things will be―you will be able to pull girls on looks alone and say things that other guys would get drinks thrown on them for. The below-average looking man will have to work harder than the goodlooking man to get the same results. Instead of only approaching three girls to get a number, an unattractive man may have to approach ten.

While it isn’t fair that a man has to work harder because of bad genetic luck, consider the bright side: his game will be better and more honed than the good-looking guy who didn’t have to work for it. Once his look fades, he won’t have as much to fall back on. Let’s say you have bad genetic luck with your appearance. I’d compare you to a tennis athlete born with little natural ability. You have to practice six hours a day while the natural practices for two hours, only for him to cream you in most matches. But because you are committed and disciplined, you stick with the game and pull out enough wins to make money on the circuit. You will never be a superstar or top ten ranked player, but you will be able to do what you enjoy, make an upper class living, and enjoy sex from your stable of groupies.